Reasons why im a bad friend:

  • i get too attached
  • i will complain about all my problems to you
  • i will snap at you by accident one day, causing you to hate me
  • i need to be reassured periodically CONSTANTLY that you dont think im annoying
  • i am annoying
  • im boring
  • i dont know how to keep the conversation going
  • i get emotional after midnight and will probably tell you something that could make you think differently of me


being nice to people who are harassing you is a survival tactic. girls learn this by the time they turn 12, if you flat out tell a guy no, he’ll become angry & the situation will get worse, sometimes even violent. you are taught to be nice and let them down easy, which then you are accused of “leading them on”. There is no winning, you just got to choose which you find less horrible.